I know I am angry about something more than our son's lack of caring, and his procrastination. I feel he is privileged and he takes for granted the opportunity to learn an instrument, that he loves. Truth is, I simply don't know how to be present to his considerable talent and keep him on a responsible path without his acting out. Our son wants to be left alone, and tells us he will practice when he is ready, but he has not initiated practice in a long while and never for more than fifteen minutes. I would really like to know how is how to create the kind of harmony in our relationship that will encourage him to practice and be motivated to be efficient with his time.